如若你肯安定,我将陪你终老. 

[quote]引用第6楼dalv12345于2010-06-26 23:07发表的  : 男人30以前 能收心的太少了 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5836847][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 放屁...you should get out more

[quote]引用第19楼bunnyface于2010-06-27 08:52发表的 : at 35 you are gonna say  "I wish i haven't wasted my youth years on people that no longer matters any more." ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837235][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] Thinking about it ain't going to do me any good, sister! I need to come up with a Plan.  Anyoneinterested in this joint effort?  LOL!

Plan to do what? [s:199]

敢說出來 就夠了 對你的勇氣鼓掌 看到這一句 "你很好,可是我不想要." 但是感覺妳的標準不低...期實很多也願意安定, 只是應該沒達到你心中的要求

[quote]引用第18楼fairladyz于2010-06-27 08:40发表的  : Looks?  Check. Height?  Check. Like cars?  Check. ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837218][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] what a compliment~~~lol~~~im not that good>.< its just i had gone through enough to make myself tired. i know there are lots i can experience, but i am too tired..or just for now.. i just want to find someone, who has a true heart and meet most of my "essential requirements", to love, and probably to marry in the future. sigh...is that extravaqant...

[quote]引用第20楼bunnyface于2010-06-27 08:55发表的  : on one note, lz i know how you feel. guys who are successful in their mid 20s always think they are on top of the world, and always want to shop around. let me put it this way, by the time they are 30 and still didn't find the right one, they'll be looking at girls at early to mid 20s ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837237][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] exactly. but there is just not enough people who can realize this. and even they do, they dun follow it.

[quote]引用第24楼dh22于2010-06-27 10:27发表的  : 敢說出來 就夠了 對你的勇氣鼓掌 看到這一句 "你很好,可是我不想要." 但是感覺妳的標準不低...期實很多也願意安定, 只是應該沒達到你心中的要求 ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837332][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 唉...其实我真的标准不高...就是想找个差不多的,然后能心动的人... 我也没想着能找个又高又帅又有钱还专一浪漫的. 所谓"靠谱"一点就是. 我已经做好充分的心理准备迈向剩女大军了. 有一哥们说我应该会很难嫁,凭长相没问题..但是加上其他的... 我认了..他奶奶...

[quote]引用第27楼液宫、⒗浅于2010-06-27 10:49发表的  : 唉...其实我真的标准不高...就是想找个差不多的,然后能心动的人... 我也没想着能找个又高又帅又有钱还专一浪漫的. ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837375][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 不了解細節 只能說加油吧 多出去認識人是有幫助的

[quote]引用第28楼dh22于2010-06-27 12:50发表的  : 不了解細節 只能說加油吧 多出去認識人是有幫助的 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837715][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 我有轻微社交圈狭隘症,外加间歇性自闭. 认识的人很多,成朋友的很少.更别说心动的了. 同勉吧.

[quote]引用第25楼液宫、⒗浅于2010-06-27 10:44发表的  : i just want to find someone, who has a true heart and meet most of my "[size=4]essential requirements[/size]", to love, and probably to marry in the future. [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837365][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] What are your essential requirements?

[quote]引用第30楼formulab于2010-06-27 14:44发表的  : What are your essential requirements? [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837876][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] well...i quoted it..so..they are not really really essential... such things include height..appereance..similar family background..similar values and perspectives...

得不到的，或者说不了解的永远都是最好的... 真正的永远的都不是充满激情的口头承诺， 而是相互的理解和包容...

[quote]引用第27楼液宫、⒗浅于2010-06-27 10:49发表的 : 我认了..他奶奶... ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837375][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 哈哈哈！看到这里我忍不住笑出来了。 Worry not, you are still far too young to surrender.  Boy, when I was at your age, I was coughbangingcough my English prof.  Man, that was some wild experience. Jokes aside, people at your age should be pumped full with confidence.  If you realize your issue is 轻微社交圈狭隘症, then perhaps the first effort you should make is to get out and [b]really[/b] interact with new people. Do not going in, with the mindset of finding a bf.  Go in, to make friends.  Then if it's meant to happen, it'll happen.

被绑架的爱！女人都喜欢听承诺，却不可太相信承诺！那些美好的愿望，都是我们内心的不安全感的映射，做一个内心强大的女人去吸引对方，感情中靠的是吸引！

[quote]引用第22楼fairladyz于2010-06-27 09:23发表的  : Thinking about it ain't going to do me any good, sister! ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5837263][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] [size=3][b]Sorry Z, but you are hopeless,[u]NO ONE[/u] can help you.[/b][/size][b] [/b][size=3][b]because you are not willing to make an effort to help yourself.[/b][/size] [size=3]I have already told you the answer, over and over again, but all I can do is tell it to you,  you have to be willing to help yourself. you gotta let it hurt before it can heal. you have to understand everything you've done up to this point are temporary fixes that led you to nowhere,  "take off the bandages and let it bleed, only when you allow it to bleed will it then heal." I will however this time further explain what I mean bandages [color=#ff0000]=[/color] temporary fix [color=#ff0000]=[/color] the little things you are doing with her that's keeping you going, like msn once a week, blogs you write about her, listening to songs that were "yours",  these are the things you feel "[color=#ff0000]you[/color] [color=#ff0000]need[/color]" to get you through another day.  But what they really are, are little bandages that's holding an infected wound,  underneath those bandages is a very very sick and diseased wound that's not getting the right medical attention it needs to get better. she knows it, but she keeps giving it to you, because, she's a sick sick person what care for no one but herself. what you need to do is take off all those bandages and see the infected diseased cut she's made in you,   see it for what it really is. Let it bleed, let it hurt, peel off the bandages one by one and let the wound bleed,  and then clean it all out with a healthy life style a normal person should have, the correct interaction a guy like you should be having with the world. and eventually the wound will heal with time in the right way. I really can't do much more for you, like I said, [u]NO ONE [/u]can help you you life is in your hands, as my life is in mine.  only you can help yourself!! And if  you happen to like the way you are, or not willing to take off the bandages, then you are hopeless. You are royally screwed for as long as she want you to be.[/size][u] [size=2] [/size] [size=2] [/size] [/b]

So............................................I shouldn't get that first aid kit then? [s:199]

[quote]引用第33楼fairladyz于2010-06-27 16:54发表的  : 哈哈哈！看到这里我忍不住笑出来了。 ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5838132][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] well.. i know all of this..but i just cant push myself out. i take my life as it is rite now. it somehow calms me down by changing to nothing. perhaps i dun realize how the "freaking feeling thing" even becomes a problem of mine. i was never bothered by it before. i guess its just pay back time..hahahah...

不认识你。。。

[quote]引用第37楼液宫、⒗浅于2010-06-27 19:25发表的 : well.. i know all of this..but i just cant push myself out. i take my life as it is rite now. it somehow calms me down by changing to nothing. ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5838587][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] Come to the next autoclub meet.  Consider that your 1st step.

[quote]引用第39楼fairladyz于2010-06-27 19:40发表的  : Come to the next autoclub meet.  Consider that your 1st step. [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=251321&pid=5838610][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] >.<...im too shy to see u guys....i only went once..it was last year....