20岁做妈妈会太早吗？ 

哎哟，其实总在纳闷这个问题>< 看着朋友21岁就生了个宝贝，自己看着也痒痒。 可回头想想，二人世界都还没有就来了个宝宝会不会不划算啊。 自己好爱小孩子哦。真是矛盾。要生呢还是不要>< 想听听大家的意见~！

順其自然吧...如果結婚了...當然想要過2人世界的話,還可以再等幾年再要孩子...有了孩子要再過2人世界就要等到孩子都長大離開家裡後,才可以啦~~

要孩子之前要考虑好很多因素

这个呢 早要有早要的好处 晚要有晚要的益处 看你们两个人怎么想了 我现在觉得还是早点要好 等宝宝大的时候 你还很年轻啊 生个女儿一起逛街的话 人家还以为姐妹俩呢 多好啊 呵呵

还是晚个 1,2年比较好，一旦生了孩子，自由完全被绑住。。。对于年轻的女孩子来说，我觉得不太适合早育。。。 我都28了，刚结婚就有了孩子，2人世界都没过。。后悔死了没做安全措施！

要自己做好心理准备，我22岁做的妈妈，总感觉跟老公没两人世界的时间了，不过每当有人惊讶我看不出是妈妈的时候，我就蛮开心蛮自豪的。现在我都已经怀老二了。反正女孩早生晚生都要生，早生恢复的又快又好！

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和老婆30歲要小孩 才發現精神體力都有點受不了 雖說兩人世界很重要 可是一過25歲 生活瑣碎 交際 工作 ... etc 精神很容易衰退

如果经济允许，自己又以家庭为重，又有能力抚养和教育孩子的话，why not? 但如果只是觉得小孩子可爱的话，那就要三思了，因为他们大多数情况都不可爱 读读这个： 11 Step Program for those thinking of having kids .Lesson 1 1. Go to the grocery store. 2. Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their head office. 3. Go home. 4. Pick up the paper. 5. Read it for the last time. Lesson 2 Before you finally go ahead and have children, find a couple who already are parents and berate them about their... 1. Methods of discipline. 2. Lack of patience. 3. Appallingly low tolerance levels. 4. Allowing their children to run wild. 5. Suggest ways in which they might improve their child's breastfeeding, sleep habits, toilet training, table manners, and overall behavior. Enjoy it because it will be the last time in your life you will have all the answers. Lesson 3 A really good way to discover how the nights might feel... 1. Get home from work and immediately begin walking around the living room from 5PM to 10PM carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 8-12 pounds, with a radio turned to static (or some other obnoxious sound) playing loudly. (Eat cold food with one hand for dinner) 2. At 10PM, put the bag gently down, set the alarm for midnight, and go to sleep. 3. Get up at 12 and walk around the living room again, with the bag, until 1AM. 4. Set the alarm for 3AM. 5. As you can't get back to sleep, get up at 2AM and make a drink and watch an infomercial. 6. Go to bed at 2:45AM. 7. Get up at 3AM when the alarm goes off. 8. Sing songs quietly in the dark until 4AM. 9. Get up. Make breakfast. Get ready for work and go to work (work hard and be productive) Repeat steps 1-9 each night. Keep this up for 3-5 years. Look cheerful and together. Lesson 4 Can you stand the mess children make? T o find out... 1. Smear peanut butter onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains. 2. Hide a piece of raw chicken behind the stereo and leave it there all summer. 3. Stick your fingers in the flower bed. 4. Then rub them on the clean walls. 5. Take your favorite book, photo album, etc. Wreck it. 6. Spill milk on your new pillows. Cover the stains with crayons. How does that look? Lesson 5 Dressing small children is not as easy as it seems. 1. Buy an octopus and a small bag made out of loose mesh. 2. Attempt to put the octopus into the bag so that none of the arms hang out. Time allowed for this - all morning. Lesson 6 Forget the BMW and buy a mini-van. And don't think that you can leave it out in the driveway spotless and shining. Family cars don't look like that. 1. Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it there. 2. Get a dime. Stick it in the CD player. 3. Take a family size package of chocolate cookies. Mash them into the back seat. Sprinkle cheerios all over the floor, then smash them with your foot. 4. Run a garden rake along both sides of the car. Lesson 7 Go to the local grocery store. Take with you the closest thing you can find to a pre-school child. (A full-grown goat is an excellent choice). If you intend to have more than one child, then definitely take more than one goat. Buy your week's groceries without letting the goats out of your sight. Pay for everything the goat eats or destroys. Until you can easily accomplish this, do not even contemplate having children. Lesson 8 1. Hollow out a melon. 2. Make a small hole in the side. 3. Suspend it from the ceiling and swing it from side to side. 4. Now get a bowl of soggy Cheerios and attempt to spoon them into the swaying melon by pretending to be an airplane. 5. Continue until half the Cheerios are gone. 6. Tip half into your lap. The other half, just throw up in the air. You are now ready to feed a nine- month-old baby. Lesson 9 Learn the names of every character from Sesame Street , Barney, Disney, the Teletubbies, and Pokemon. Watch nothing else on TV but PBS, the Disney channel or Noggin for at least five years. (I know, you're thinking What's 'Noggin'?) Exactly the point. Lesson 10 Make a recording of Fran Drescher saying 'mommy' repeatedly. (Important: no more than a four second delay between each 'mommy'; occasional crescendo to the level of a supersonic jet is required). Play this tape in your car everywhere you go for the next four years. You are now ready to take a long trip with a toddler. Lesson 11 Start talking to an adult of your choice. Have someone else continually tug on your skirt hem, shirt- sleeve, or elbow while playing the 'mommy' tape made from Lesson 10 above. You are now ready to have a conversation with an adult while there is a child in the room. This is all very tongue in cheek; anyone who is parent will say 'it's all worth it!' Share it with your friends, both those who do and don't have kids. I guarantee they'll get a chuckle out of it. Remember, a sense of humor is one of the most important things you'll need when you become a parent!

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我至今最痛苦的是Lesson 7 一个人带孩子grocery shopping的话 简直是mission impossible!